It’s Still Here // Wendy White
Written by Wendy B. White
As I sat in my Asheville home, reflecting on the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, the news echoed a heartbreaking refrain: everything was gone. The River Arts District, Swannanoa, Lake Lure, Chimney Rock—gone, gone, gone. It left me wondering what remained of our beloved community. What could we possibly rebuild from? What was still here?
Determined to find answers, I took to the road to explore for myself. I needed to shift my perspective from loss to resilience—what treasures still lingered amidst the devastation?
As I meandered through the streets, I saw the aftermath in Swannanoa, where the raging river had decimated Main Street. I drove down Tunnel Road toward Black Mountain, a small mountain town close to my heart, uncertain of what I would find. To my immense relief, as I traveled down Tunnel Road, I caught sight of a familiar haven—Dynamite Coffee! My favorite coffee shop and roaster, still standing!
There, on the back porch, people gathered, and a wave of relief washed over me. I parked and walked up the intact walkway, greeted by the manager who offered a single urn of coffee and half-and-half. I ordered my cup, took a long sip, and smiled. Yes, we are still here!
In that moment, the manager became my first "Love Along the Way" interview. I asked how love had shown up in his life during this challenging time. He shared beautiful stories of neighbors coming together—clearing debris, supporting one another, and finding hope amid the chaos.
Inspired, I continued my journey, eager to uncover more signs of resilience. To my delight, I found that much of Black Mountain had remained untouched. Although businesses were closed due to the lack of power, water, and internet, the buildings still stood strong. I spotted Kid’s Quest, the after school program originally funded by a Let's Choose Love mini-grant, and Seven Sisters, my favorite local gallery.
I returned to downtown Asheville, where the Grey Eagle concert hall—my go-to venue for local and traveling musicians—was also still here.
In the face of adversity, it became clear: love and community endure. We are still here, and together, we can rebuild.
I learned important lessons from this search for what is still here:
Shift Perspective: When faced with loss, consciously focus on what remains rather than what is gone.
Explore Resilience: Actively seek out places and people that embody strength and perseverance in the aftermath of challenges.
Community Connection: Recognize the power of community support during tough times; shared stories can inspire hope and healing.
Embrace Joy: Even in difficult situations, find and celebrate the beauty and joy that still exists around you.
Balance Grief and Hope: Acknowledge both the sorrow of loss and the presence of love and resilience; finding this balance is crucial for moving forward.
Support Local: Engage with local businesses and community spaces that have weathered the storm, fostering connection and recovery.
Cultivate Gratitude: Practice gratitude for the things that remain and the people who support you, even in challenging times.
Double D’s Coffee and Cafe - Downtown Asheville
Grey Eagle Music Hall
Favorite jewelry and art store filled with amazing people and shiny things.